It happened to me too, two years ago. Everybody looked at us and thought we were perfect, that he is such a good guy, that he loved me, and so on. But I wasn't happy. I felt I was in a cage and I realized that we had communication problems. Last year I understood the qualities that I look for in a partner and now I am in a happy relationship with a man who has my same values and principles. I realized my faults in my previous relationships and I learnt a lot from my mistakes.